http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&blog_id=26648Check out some fun and practical ideas that will help make family life fun! If you have any helpful tips or funny family stories that you would like to share, please send it to nancy@ewach.com. You may see it on our website!EN-USCopyright &#xA9; 2010 Entrusted with a Child's Hearthttp://www.triplePixel.comTue, 07 Sep 2010 08:00:00 GMTEntrusted With A Child's HeartEvery Day Counts!Check out some fun and practical ideas that will help make family life fun! If you have any helpful tips or funny family stories that you would like to share, please send it to nancy@ewach.com. You may see it on our website!Every Day Counts!kristijez@comcast.netnohttp://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=221872http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=221872Tue, 07 Sep 2010 13:00:00 GMTWhen I took Isaiah and Samuel, then three- and two-years old, to their first dentist appointment, we were shocked to learn that they had nine cavities between them both.  I felt embarrassed in front of the dentist, receptionist and other moms in the waiting room, and the realization of having to pay thousands of dollars in dental bills made me feel literally sick to my stomach. I also began to mentally calculate the number of hours it would take to get all the cavities filled, knowing the dentist could only fill one or two cavities at a time. The challenge of trying to squeeze these necessary appointments into an already busy schedule overwhelmed me.<br /> <br /> I have to admit that brushing our toddlers’ teeth was a chore both my husband and I dreaded. We were in a season of life that was not only physically exhausting, but emotionally stressful, and at times, filled with uncertainty regarding God’s sovereign will for our lives and our family. Brushing our kids’ teeth just did not seem very significant during this crisis-mode period.<br /> <br /> We argued daily about whose turn it was to brush the three little ones – Isaiah – three, Samuel – two, and Micah – one-year-old, every morning and night. We even tried to get our older three teens to help out from time to time but couldn’t blame them when they complained about doing this thankless chore. We as the parents weren’t setting a very positive example.  To be honest, some nights it just didn’t get done. And now we were literally paying the price. What to do?<br /> <br /> Well, God is so faithful in the midst of our unfaithfulness, even in the smallest of details. Our dentist, without judging me as a neglectful, “bad” mom, gently began to ask me questions about our teeth brushing routine. As I admitting our shortcomings in this area, he proceeded to share with me two amazingly simple tips that have changed our teeth brushing routine in our family forever:<br /> <ol> <li><strong>Invest in the most inexpensive electronic toothbrush</strong> (approximately $25). One base for the kids is adequate, with each child having their own brushhead marked in a different color. The electronic toothbrush allows you to get into the hard-to-reach places with minimal effort.</li> <li><strong>Sit on a stool or chair and cradle the child’s head in your left arm as you brush him/her with your right hand. </strong>This position lets your child relax and be still, allowing you to brush for the full two minutes until the automatic built-in timer buzzes in the toothbrush.</li> </ol> <br /> During this challenging season, I was inspired by Lesson Six, “A Mother’s Touch and the Nature of a Child” in the <em>Entrusted with a Child’s Heart </em>Notebook. As a result, I have been looking for intentional ways to build and strengthen heart connections with each of my six children and our teeth brushing routine has become the perfect time to connect with each of my toddlers. I either sing them their favorite Sunday School song or pray over them as I brush each child’s teeth for two minutes.  It has become a wonderfully sweet time of affection and worship as I hold each of them every morning and night. Best of all, praise God that we have been cavity-free for the past two years!<br /> <br /> <br /> <em>“For the LORD is good; His lovingkindness is everlasting and His faithfulness to all generations.” </em>Psalm 100:5When I took Isaiah and Samuel, then three- and two-years old, to their first dentist appointment, we were shocked to learn that they had nine cavities between them both. I felt embarrassed in front of the dentist, receptionist and other moms in the waiting room, and the realization of having to pay thousands of dollars in dental bills made me feel literally sick to my stomach. I also began to mentally calculate the number of hours it would take to get all the cavities filled, knowing the dentist could only fill one or two cavities at a time. The challenge of trying to squeeze these necessary appointments into an already busy schedule overwhelmed me. I have to admit that brushing our toddlers’ teeth was a chore both my husband and I dreaded. We were in a season of life that was not only physically exhausting, but emotionally stressful, and at times, filled with uncertainty regarding God’s sovereign will for our lives and our family. Brushing our kids’ teeth just did not seem very significant during this crisis-mode period. We argued daily about whose turn it was to brush the three little ones – Isaiah – three, Samuel – two, and Micah – one-year-old, every morning and night. We even tried to get our older three teens to help out from time to time but couldn’t blame them when they complained about doing this thankless chore. We as the parents weren’t setting a very positive example. To be honest, some nights it just didn’t get done. And now we were literally paying the price. What to do? Well, God is so faithful in the midst of our unfaithfulness, even in the smallest of details. Our dentist, without judging me as a neglectful, “bad” mom, gently began to ask me questions about our teeth brushing routine. As I admitting our shortcomings in this area, he proceeded to share with me two amazingly simple tips that have changed our teeth brushing routine in our family forever: Invest in the most inexpensive electronic toothbrush (approximately $25). One base for the kids is adequate, with each child having their own brushhead marked in a different color. The electronic toothbrush allows you to get into the hard-to-reach places with minimal effort. Sit on a stool or chair and cradle the child’s head in your left arm as you brush him/her with your right hand. This position lets your child relax and be still, allowing you to brush for the full two minutes until the automatic built-in timer buzzes in the toothbrush. During this challenging season, I was inspired by Lesson Six, “A Mother’s Touch and the Nature of a Child” in the Entrusted with a Child’s Heart Notebook. As a result, I have been looking for intentional ways to build and strengthen heart connections with each of my six children and our teeth brushing routine has become the perfect time to connect with each of my toddlers. I either sing them their favorite Sunday School song or pray over them as I brush each child’s teeth for two minutes. It has become a wonderfully sweet time of affection and worship as I hold each of them every morning and night. Best of all, praise God that we have been cavity-free for the past two years! “For the LORD is good; His lovingkindness is everlasting and His faithfulness to all generations.” Psalm 100:5221872http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/221872-thumbnail.jpg?1009060937http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=221139http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=221139Tue, 31 Aug 2010 18:00:00 GMTA couple of weeks ago someone I know was doing a major landscaping overhaul. They unexpectedly gave me 4 large hydrangea bushes along with about 15 other uprooted plants. I was grateful... but wondered whether I could keep them alive in the middle of the August heat wave we were having at that time.<br /> <br /> The person who gave me these wonderful gifts, gave me a single instruction for keeping them alive. He simply said, "Water them -- a lot!" <br /> <br /> So I did. I carefully watered them, some times 3 or more times a day!<br /> <br /> During the week or so that followed, I fought to keep these uprooted plants alive while they waited in my backyard  for the landscaper to work us into his schedule.  During their time out of the soil, the hydrangea petals withered and fell off. Then the leaves quickly turned from a healthy green to a crispy brown. <br /> <br /> Each day as I watered, God reminded me how similar I am to those plants when I am not rooted in Him. Apart from the rich nutrients of His Word, I cannot survive in the stifling conditions of the world around me, and fruits like love, joy, and peace quickly dry up and die. <br /> <br /> In Psalm 1, David describes the alternative to going it alone in this world, as a believer who finds great joy in God's Word while meditating in its truths day and night. Notice how he describes this follower as being <em>planted.</em> <br /> <br /> <em>He will be like a tree firmly planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in its season and its leaf does not wither; and in whatever he does, he prospers.</em> Psalm 1:3<br /> <br /> My plants are all in the ground now, and the landscaper told me that although most of their leaves died while out of the ground, they are still alive and should thrive now that they are once again where they belong... PLANTED.<br /> <br /> <em>Therefore as you have received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in Him, having been firmly rooted and now being built up in Him and established in your faith, just as you were instructed, and overflowing with gratitude. </em>Colossians 2:6<br /> <br />A couple of weeks ago someone I know was doing a major landscaping overhaul. They unexpectedly gave me 4 large hydrangea bushes along with about 15 other uprooted plants. I was grateful... but wondered whether I could keep them alive in the middle of the August heat wave we were having at that time. The person who gave me these wonderful gifts, gave me a single instruction for keeping them alive. He simply said, "Water them -- a lot!" So I did. I carefully watered them, some times 3 or more times a day! During the week or so that followed, I fought to keep these uprooted plants alive while they waited in my backyard for the landscaper to work us into his schedule. During their time out of the soil, the hydrangea petals withered and fell off. Then the leaves quickly turned from a healthy green to a crispy brown. Each day as I watered, God reminded me how similar I am to those plants when I am not rooted in Him. Apart from the rich nutrients of His Word, I cannot survive in the stifling conditions of the world around me, and fruits like love, joy, and peace quickly dry up and die. In Psalm 1, David describes the alternative to going it alone in this world, as a believer who finds great joy in God's Word while meditating in its truths day and night. Notice how he describes this follower as being planted. He will be like a tree firmly planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in its season and its leaf does not wither; and in whatever he does, he prospers. Psalm 1:3 My plants are all in the ground now, and the landscaper told me that although most of their leaves died while out of the ground, they are still alive and should thrive now that they are once again where they belong... PLANTED. Therefore as you have received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in Him, having been firmly rooted and now being built up in Him and established in your faith, just as you were instructed, and overflowing with gratitude. Colossians 2:6221139http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/221139-thumbnail.jpg?1008310427http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=220756http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=220756Fri, 27 Aug 2010 14:00:00 GMT <br /> Now that the kids are back in school, how about some <strong>“Mom Time”</strong>?<br /> <br /> <a href="http://www.ewach.com/10186/productcategory/category_id/194006/Moms__Ministry_Curriculum__DVD_Format_"><img alt="" border="0" usemap="#rade_img_map_edtBody_0" src="http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/NotebookCoverThumb.jpg" style="border-color: rgb(135, 206, 235); width: 306px; height: 504px;" /></a><br /> Learn what the <strong>Bible says</strong> about parenting and family life.<br /> <br /> <ul> <li>Share the journey with other moms in a small group setting </li> <li>Scripture-based insights on every page </li> <li>Organized in manageable pieces for everyday life </li> <li>Encouragement to nurture the heart of your child (not just the external behavior) </li> <li>DVD teaching with corresponding notebook </li> <li>Scripture memory verse cards with each lesson </li> </ul> <br /> Classes are starting soon so come join us by <a href="http://www.ewach.com/10186/content/content_id/74933/List_of_Class_Locations_">enrolling in a class</a> near you.<br /> <br /> Or if you don’t see a church near you, consider <a href="http://www.ewach.com/10186/content/content_id/26975/Implement_this_Study">starting your own group</a> in your church or neighborhood!<br /> <br /> We're here to help. Just let us know if you have any <a href="http://www.ewach.com/10186/form/form_id/26511/Contact">questions</a>...<br /> <map name="rade_img_map_edtBody_0" id="rade_img_map_edtBody_0"> <area href="http://" coords="292,85,293,87" shape="rect" /></map>Now that the kids are back in school, how about some “Mom Time” ? Learn what the Bible says about parenting and family life. Share the journey with other moms in a small group setting Scripture-based insights on every page Organized in manageable pieces for everyday life Encouragement to nurture the heart of your child (not just the external behavior) DVD teaching with corresponding notebook Scripture memory verse cards with each lesson Classes are starting soon so come join us by enrolling in a class near you. Or if you don’t see a church near you, consider starting your own group in your church or neighborhood! We're here to help. Just let us know if you have any questions ...220756http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/220756-thumbnail.png?1009060954http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=219590http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=219590Wed, 18 Aug 2010 14:00:00 GMTI had a cold. I mean a COLD. I don’t get usually get sick; in fact, I hadn’t had a common cold in a few years.  But this cold was unlike all others and left me barely enough strength to get through our home schooling and the household chores.  There was no stamina for anything extra.  <br /> <br /> And... it was the VERY last week of school. The week I had anxiously anticipated for the past few years. The week we were to graduate our youngest child, a senior in high school with multiple disabilities.  We were moving to a new stage of life.  <br /> <br /> It is a day that every parent of a disabled child faces when that child becomes an adult -- an adult in age only, not in ability or function.  I had been seeking the Lord about this life transition for years.  Now it was upon us, and I had no idea what we would do after this week.  <br /> <br /> <em>“Lord, I gave up trying to figure out the whole plan for the rest of my daughter’s life, but I don’t even know what the next step is, and here we are!  I’ve been seeking You. I’ve been waiting on You.  It’s time for the next step right now, and I still don’t know what to do.”  </em><br /> <br /> His message came that very last week of school through an uncommon cold, and through my readings in Hosea that week.<br /> <br /> Hosea 4:16  Since Israel is stubborn like a stubborn heifer, can the LORD now pasture them like a lamb in a large field?<br /> <br /> I learned that cattle, even calves, are not very vulnerable to predators; however, lambs are extremely vulnerable.  Israel thought they were cattle, but God would show them that they were really only lambs.  Through that uncommon cold which limited me to being able to do only the basic things of homemaking and caregiving, God exposed me to the reality of my extreme vulnerability and fragility.  It was like He pulled back the curtain and showed me once again that the only reason I have been as strong as an ox is because of Him.  The reality is I am a lamb...a lamb in cattle’s clothing...fragile...vulnerable.  <br /> <br /> <em>“Child, you are just a lamb.  I know your vulnerability.  I know your fragility.  I know your hard work done in My Name and in My strength.  I know your weariness.  This is the next step--rest.  I delight to see you rest, especially the rest that comes from trusting in Me.”</em><br /> <br /> Are you at a transition point in your life, and though you’ve been seeking the Lord, you still don’t know what the next step is?  Could it be because the next step is to rest? When it is time, He will make you as strong as a ox again.  I mean a lamb in cattle’s clothing.<br type="_moz" />I had a cold. I mean a COLD. I don’t get usually get sick; in fact, I hadn’t had a common cold in a few years. But this cold was unlike all others and left me barely enough strength to get through our home schooling and the household chores. There was no stamina for anything extra. And... it was the VERY last week of school. The week I had anxiously anticipated for the past few years. The week we were to graduate our youngest child, a senior in high school with multiple disabilities. We were moving to a new stage of life. It is a day that every parent of a disabled child faces when that child becomes an adult -- an adult in age only, not in ability or function. I had been seeking the Lord about this life transition for years. Now it was upon us, and I had no idea what we would do after this week. “Lord, I gave up trying to figure out the whole plan for the rest of my daughter’s life, but I don’t even know what the next step is, and here we are! I’ve been seeking You. I’ve been waiting on You. It’s time for the next step right now, and I still don’t know what to do.” His message came that very last week of school through an uncommon cold, and through my readings in Hosea that week. Hosea 4:16 Since Israel is stubborn like a stubborn heifer, can the LORD now pasture them like a lamb in a large field? I learned that cattle, even calves, are not very vulnerable to predators; however, lambs are extremely vulnerable. Israel thought they were cattle, but God would show them that they were really only lambs. Through that uncommon cold which limited me to being able to do only the basic things of homemaking and caregiving, God exposed me to the reality of my extreme vulnerability and fragility. It was like He pulled back the curtain and showed me once again that the only reason I have been as strong as an ox is because of Him. The reality is I am a lamb...a lamb in cattle’s clothing...fragile...vulnerable. “Child, you are just a lamb. I know your vulnerability. I know your fragility. I know your hard work done in My Name and in My strength. I know your weariness. This is the next step--rest. I delight to see you rest, especially the rest that comes from trusting in Me.” Are you at a transition point in your life, and though you’ve been seeking the Lord, you still don’t know what the next step is? Could it be because the next step is to rest? When it is time, He will make you as strong as a ox again. I mean a lamb in cattle’s clothing.219590http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/219590-thumbnail.jpg?1008181047http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=219595http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=219595Fri, 13 Aug 2010 18:00:00 GMTAfter 12 years as a “Moms Only” Ministry, <em>Entrusted with a Child’s Heart</em> has now officially crossed the gender barrier! The first “Entrusted for Men” group recently completed the entire study at 6:30 on Saturday mornings! <br /> <br /> They were led by none other than Dave Corning (Betsy’s husband) while over 20 men met and discussed one chapter per week, using the <a href="http://www.ewach.com/10186/product/product_id/194582/Entrusted_with_a_Child_s_Heart__Book_Format_">ENTRUSTED WITH A CHILD'S HEART (BOOK FORMAT)</a>.  Congratulations to these dads for being the first – may they inspire many more to take this ministry to their men’s or couples’ groups!<br /> <br /> <img src="http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/EWACH%20men%20group.png" /><br /> <br /> <br /> Here are some of the things our EWACH Dads had to say after completing the study:<br /> <br /> <br /> <em>"One of the most significant things I learned in the </em>Entrusted<em> class is that in order to be effective in parenting you need to be intentional in what you are doing. Godly children don’t just happen; they are the result of parents who formulate a plan for teaching and training their children for Christ-like living.</em> Entrusted<em> gave me the tools I need to do just that."</em><br /> <br /> <img alt="" src="http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/EWACH%20men2.png" /><br /> <br /> <em>"The</em> Entrusted<em> study is and will continue to be a vital part of our Christian family experience. It is a great tool for Christian moms and dads alike and is a ready resource in our ongoing battle with the rulers of the darkness in heavenly places."</em><br /> <br /> <br /> <em>"Going through the same study as my wife allowed us to get on the same page for parenting our children. It also gave me a new perspective into the efforts that she is putting forth in raising godly children. This new understanding has helped me learn how to be more deeply and actively involved in the parenting process." <br /> </em><br /> <img alt="" src="http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/EWACH%20men3.png" /><br /> <br /> <em>"Strongly rooted in the undeniable truth of God's Word, </em>Entrusted<em> provides a scriptural foundation for raising children of noble character in the midst of "new-age" secularism.  Fathers in particular, will find this worthy reading in that it provides foundational and practical lessons that reinforce their responsibility to be the spiritual leaders of their household.  This is a must have book for all parents (and grandparents) regardless of the age of their children!"</em><br />After 12 years as a “Moms Only” Ministry, Entrusted with a Child’s Heart has now officially crossed the gender barrier! The first “Entrusted for Men” group recently completed the entire study at 6:30 on Saturday mornings! They were led by none other than Dave Corning (Betsy’s husband) while over 20 men met and discussed one chapter per week, using the ENTRUSTED WITH A CHILD'S HEART (BOOK FORMAT) . Congratulations to these dads for being the first – may they inspire many more to take this ministry to their men’s or couples’ groups! Here are some of the things our EWACH Dads had to say after completing the study: "One of the most significant things I learned in the Entrusted class is that in order to be effective in parenting you need to be intentional in what you are doing. Godly children don’t just happen; they are the result of parents who formulate a plan for teaching and training their children for Christ-like living. Entrusted gave me the tools I need to do just that." "The Entrusted study is and will continue to be a vital part of our Christian family experience. It is a great tool for Christian moms and dads alike and is a ready resource in our ongoing battle with the rulers of the darkness in heavenly places." "Going through the same study as my wife allowed us to get on the same page for parenting our children. It also gave me a new perspective into the efforts that she is putting forth in raising godly children. This new understanding has helped me learn how to be more deeply and actively involved in the parenting process." "Strongly rooted in the undeniable truth of God's Word, Entrusted provides a scriptural foundation for raising children of noble character in the midst of "new-age" secularism. Fathers in particular, will find this worthy reading in that it provides foundational and practical lessons that reinforce their responsibility to be the spiritual leaders of their household. This is a must have book for all parents (and grandparents) regardless of the age of their children!"219595http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/219595-thumbnail.jpg?1008130138http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=145820http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=145820Tue, 10 Aug 2010 15:00:00 GMTLooking for a few more activities to round out your summer? In this time of economic crisis, money for family fun may be limited. But that's okay, here are some fun yet budget-friendly activities that our family has enjoyed.<br /> <br /> <ul> <li> Visit a shop or factory where candy is made. Children love the samples!</li> <li> Check your local library for story times, or start one in your own neighborhood. </li> <li> Cook a meal together.</li> <li> Visit a TV or radio studio that offers tours or seats for a show's taping.</li> <li> Take a commuter train ride to get the train ride experience. </li> <li> Bake homemade bread so they can punch down the dough, see it rise, then bake and eat it.</li> <li> Make a pinata by covering a giant balloon with paper mache. They can keep it round or make it into an animal. A simpler pinata can be made by using a brown grocery bag and filling it with prizes and treats. </li> <li> Make homemade playdoh in unusual colors (like tans and browns, etc). Let kids use your pie pans and cake stands to make a bake shoppe of playdoh creations. </li> <li> Go berry picking.</li> </ul> <br /> Most of all enjoy being with each other. The memories you are making together are priceless!<br />Looking for a few more activities to round out your summer? In this time of economic crisis, money for family fun may be limited. But that's okay, here are some fun yet budget-friendly activities that our family has enjoyed. Visit a shop or factory where candy is made. Children love the samples! Check your local library for story times, or start one in your own neighborhood. Cook a meal together. Visit a TV or radio studio that offers tours or seats for a show's taping. Take a commuter train ride to get the train ride experience. Bake homemade bread so they can punch down the dough, see it rise, then bake and eat it. Make a pinata by covering a giant balloon with paper mache. They can keep it round or make it into an animal. A simpler pinata can be made by using a brown grocery bag and filling it with prizes and treats. Make homemade playdoh in unusual colors (like tans and browns, etc). Let kids use your pie pans and cake stands to make a bake shoppe of playdoh creations. Go berry picking. Most of all enjoy being with each other. The memories you are making together are priceless!145820http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/145820-thumbnail.jpg?1008101002http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=218241http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=218241Fri, 06 Aug 2010 15:00:00 GMTOn Friday, July 30th, Entrusted held a leadership training event at our home church of Harvest Bible Chapel in Elgin, IL. <br /> <br /> We were pleased to host women’s ministry leaders not only from local churches but also from the states of Minnesota and Tennessee! Betsy, Nancy and Gina all shared the vision of the ministry along with many insights on how to implement the Entrusted study. <br /> <br /> We are excited to begin partnering with these precious women as they now take Entrusted back to their own churches.<br /> <br /> <img src="http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/leadership%20train_july10.png" /><br type="_moz" />On Friday, July 30th, Entrusted held a leadership training event at our home church of Harvest Bible Chapel in Elgin, IL. We were pleased to host women’s ministry leaders not only from local churches but also from the states of Minnesota and Tennessee! Betsy, Nancy and Gina all shared the vision of the ministry along with many insights on how to implement the Entrusted study. We are excited to begin partnering with these precious women as they now take Entrusted back to their own churches.218241http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/218241-thumbnail.jpg?1008060442http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=217883http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=217883Tue, 03 Aug 2010 14:00:00 GMTIn these days of Velcro shoe fasteners and other latest things, are we losing the fine art of tying a shoe and other simple skills? We no longer darn socks, we just buy new ones. We forget how to add we just use a calculator. Who needs to learn how to actually “tell time” if you have a digital readout? <br /> <br /> I remember the delight my mother expressed when she taught me how to tie my apron behind my back at the age of five. Anybody besides me still wear an apron? I would not have thought anything of this newly acquired skill except for the fact that with obvious pride, my mom had me demonstrate my new ability over and over to her friends.<br /> <br /> Have you taken special notice of your child recently? What simple, special skill can you teach them that can give them a special sense of accomplishment that family and friends can “ooh and aahh” over? This summer I was astounded to observe my seven and eight year old grandchildren doing flip turns at swimming, something I have never accomplished at my age and doubtfully ever will. <br /> <br /> Sure, their technological skills will soon be light years beyond our own and their capacity to learn boggles the mind, but we, their parents and grandparents have some intriguing skills that we can pull out of our old-time hats and teach them. <br /> <br /> Think of a simple, fun thing that you can teach your children or grandchildren today and then delight in their ability, in the wonderful way that the Lord has made them and how He has entrusted them to your care. <br /> <br /> Need some ideas? <br /> <br /> I recall a 2nd grade teacher who taught every one of her students how to whistle, believing that it may someday save someone’s life. <br /> <br /> It’s summer, a great time to teach your daughter how to French braid her hair!<br /> <br /> Learning how to sew on a button or fix a hem will have a life-long return! <br /> <br /> Consider actually learning how to darn, crochet or knit.<br /> <br /> How about tying flies for fly-fishing (teens)?<br /> <br /> Take apart a broken appliance or motor and fix it with Mom or Dad’s help? <br /> <br /> Ready, set, connection time! Think simple, basic, something you can teach/learn in less than a day, then delight in them.<br /> <br /> <em>Proverbs 3:1-2 <br /> My son [daughter], do not forget my teaching, <br /> But let your heart keep my commandments;<br /> For length of days and years of life<br /> And peace they will add to you.</em>In these days of Velcro shoe fasteners and other latest things, are we losing the fine art of tying a shoe and other simple skills? We no longer darn socks, we just buy new ones. We forget how to add we just use a calculator. Who needs to learn how to actually “tell time” if you have a digital readout? I remember the delight my mother expressed when she taught me how to tie my apron behind my back at the age of five. Anybody besides me still wear an apron? I would not have thought anything of this newly acquired skill except for the fact that with obvious pride, my mom had me demonstrate my new ability over and over to her friends. Have you taken special notice of your child recently? What simple, special skill can you teach them that can give them a special sense of accomplishment that family and friends can “ooh and aahh” over? This summer I was astounded to observe my seven and eight year old grandchildren doing flip turns at swimming, something I have never accomplished at my age and doubtfully ever will. Sure, their technological skills will soon be light years beyond our own and their capacity to learn boggles the mind, but we, their parents and grandparents have some intriguing skills that we can pull out of our old-time hats and teach them. Think of a simple, fun thing that you can teach your children or grandchildren today and then delight in their ability, in the wonderful way that the Lord has made them and how He has entrusted them to your care. Need some ideas? I recall a 2nd grade teacher who taught every one of her students how to whistle, believing that it may someday save someone’s life. It’s summer, a great time to teach your daughter how to French braid her hair! Learning how to sew on a button or fix a hem will have a life-long return! Consider actually learning how to darn, crochet or knit. How about tying flies for fly-fishing (teens)? Take apart a broken appliance or motor and fix it with Mom or Dad’s help? Ready, set, connection time! Think simple, basic, something you can teach/learn in less than a day, then delight in them. Proverbs 3:1-2 My son [daughter], do not forget my teaching, But let your heart keep my commandments; For length of days and years of life And peace they will add to you.217883http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/217883-thumbnail.jpg?1008030954http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=217305http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=217305Tue, 27 Jul 2010 18:00:00 GMT“Praying for another person is like touching God with one hand and touching the person with the other," explains Jim Cymbala in his book <em>When God's People Pray.</em> <br /> <br /> While reading through this book with my small group, I came to realize how often I stop short at asking God to provide for the physical needs of others rather than delving deeper into requests for their <em>spiritual</em> needs. <br /> <br /> As I began searching through examples of prayer in Scripture, I discovered what rich content is described to us there and how praying this way for others could take my prayer life to a deeper level. Inspired, I began compiling a list of intercessory prayer requests made by these first century believers. <br /> <br /> They prayed for their loved ones to:<br /> <ul> <li>Receive the Holy Spirit – Acts 8:14-15</li> <li>Be delivered from unbelievers who oppose Truth – Rom 15:31</li> <li>Have acceptable service to God– Rom 15:31</li> <li>Receive the Spirit of wisdom and revelation – Eph 1:17-19</li> <li>Know and experience Him – Eph 1:17-10</li> <li>Know the Hope to which He’s called us – Eph 1:17-19</li> <li>Know their inheritance – Eph 1:17-19</li> <li>Know His power (the same power which raised Christ from the dead) – Eph 1:17-19</li> <li>Have strength through His Spirit – Eph 3:16-19</li> <li>Be rooted and grounded in love – Eph 3:16-19</li> <li>Understand “how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that [they] may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.” – Eph 3:16-19</li> <li>Have Christ dwell in their hearts through faith – Eph 3:16-19</li> <li>Have boldness in evangelism – 2 Thess 1:11</li> <li>Be worthy of His calling – Eph 3:16-19</li> <li>Practice effective evangelism – Philemon 1:6</li> <li>Be guarded from the Evil One – John 17:15</li> <li>Be sanctified through God's Truth/ Word – John 17:17</li> <li>Experience unity with other Believers – John 17:20-21</li> <li>Have a deepened knowledge and experience of God – John 17:3,25-26</li> <li>Experience God’s love and that God Himself may be in them – John 17:26</li> <li>Have a faith which doesn't fail – Lk 22:31-32</li> </ul> <br /> If you’ve been praying for a family member or someone else you love, don’t give up!  It is my hope that these verses will give you ideas for how you can continue to reach out to God for them.<br /> <br /> <em>Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us, to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Ephesians 3:20-21</em><br /> <br />“Praying for another person is like touching God with one hand and touching the person with the other," explains Jim Cymbala in his book When God's People Pray. While reading through this book with my small group, I came to realize how often I stop short at asking God to provide for the physical needs of others rather than delving deeper into requests for their spiritual needs. As I began searching through examples of prayer in Scripture, I discovered what rich content is described to us there and how praying this way for others could take my prayer life to a deeper level. Inspired, I began compiling a list of intercessory prayer requests made by these first century believers. They prayed for their loved ones to: Receive the Holy Spirit – Acts 8:14-15 Be delivered from unbelievers who oppose Truth – Rom 15:31 Have acceptable service to God– Rom 15:31 Receive the Spirit of wisdom and revelation – Eph 1:17-19 Know and experience Him – Eph 1:17-10 Know the Hope to which He’s called us – Eph 1:17-19 Know their inheritance – Eph 1:17-19 Know His power (the same power which raised Christ from the dead) – Eph 1:17-19 Have strength through His Spirit – Eph 3:16-19 Be rooted and grounded in love – Eph 3:16-19 Understand “how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that [they] may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.” – Eph 3:16-19 Have Christ dwell in their hearts through faith – Eph 3:16-19 Have boldness in evangelism – 2 Thess 1:11 Be worthy of His calling – Eph 3:16-19 Practice effective evangelism – Philemon 1:6 Be guarded from the Evil One – John 17:15 Be sanctified through God's Truth/ Word – John 17:17 Experience unity with other Believers – John 17:20-21 Have a deepened knowledge and experience of God – John 17:3,25-26 Experience God’s love and that God Himself may be in them – John 17:26 Have a faith which doesn't fail – Lk 22:31-32 If you’ve been praying for a family member or someone else you love, don’t give up! It is my hope that these verses will give you ideas for how you can continue to reach out to God for them. Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us, to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Ephesians 3:20-21217305http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/217305-thumbnail.jpg?1007271254http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=80537http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=80537Fri, 23 Jul 2010 13:00:00 GMTHave you ever thought of an invention that you think the world must have? <br /> <br /> My daughter and her husband think that their idea of "dinner pants" are a household necessity. Adam and Emily have four children eight and under. They have mentally invented "dinner pants" that would velcro the seats of their children to their chairs to prevent sliding off and the usual fidgeting, not to mention half the dinner on the floor! <br /> <br /> Their children understand this concept, so when Mom and Dad say to put on your dinner pants, that means to sit properly in your chair while eating.Have you ever thought of an invention that you think the world must have? My daughter and her husband think that their idea of "dinner pants" are a household necessity. Adam and Emily have four children eight and under. They have mentally invented "dinner pants" that would velcro the seats of their children to their chairs to prevent sliding off and the usual fidgeting, not to mention half the dinner on the floor! Their children understand this concept, so when Mom and Dad say to put on your dinner pants, that means to sit properly in your chair while eating.80537http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/80537-thumbnail.jpg?1006300954http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=216628http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=216628Tue, 20 Jul 2010 15:00:00 GMTI hate disciplining my daughter. It’s exhausting. She was born with autism and a very strong will, and she just doesn’t understand discipline. The negative consequences of punishment for wrong behavior aren’t strong enough to overcome her will.  <br /> <br /> Nor is letting her experience the natural consequences of her behavior...  <br /> Or taking away TV, phone, computer, activities...<br /> Or making her pay a fine...<br /> Or isolating her from the rest of the family to her bedroom.<br /> <br /> Positive consequences for good behavior? Nope, that doesn’t work either. It doesn’t matter what we do. Discipline is only minimally effective with her. We work so hard and get very little result. But will I give up consistently disciplining and instructing her in the right way even though we have seen very little result over a long term?<br /> <br /> Are you kidding? NO WAY!<br /> <br /> My love for her compels me to continue. I must continue because maybe someday it will “click” for her. Or maybe not. I will take that chance because her behavior is destructive to her function and relationships with other people. I have hope for her and see what she can become, even as a young woman with an autistic spectrum disorder. I know the power of God must be at work in her as I pray for her, and I have a lot more to lose if I don’t discipline her -- even though we may never gain much from our efforts.  <br /> <br /> I was recently touched as I read Amos 4. God is speaking to His people, Israel, through His prophet Amos. He says,<br /> <br /> “I gave you cleanness of teeth”  (meaning famine)...”yet you have not returned to Me.”  v.6<br /> “I also withheld rain from you...yet you have not returned to Me.”  v.7-8 <br /> “I blasted you with blight and mildew...yet you have not returned to Me.”  v.9<br /> “I sent among you a plague...yet you have not returned to Me.”  v.10  <br /> “I overthrew some of you...yet you have not returned to Me.”  v.11<br /> <em><br /> </em>After reading this, I responded, “Oh, God, You understand! And, because of my experience with my daughter, I understand and am overcome by seeing Your love through Your relentless discipline. I’m so weary. You know so often I feel like giving up and just allowing her stay as she is, but I can’t. I love her. I now understand this characteristic of Your love -- it “clicked” for me. Thank You for loving me and Your people so much to relentlessly discipline us when we need it.”<br /> <br /> Perhaps you feel the same way in your parenting. If so, remember we have a God Who understands and Who reminds us...<br /> <br /> <em>"For [our earthly parents] disciplined us for a short time as seemed best to them, but He disciplines us for our good, so that we may share His holiness.  All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness. Hebrews 12:10-11<br /> </em><br />I hate disciplining my daughter. It’s exhausting. She was born with autism and a very strong will, and she just doesn’t understand discipline. The negative consequences of punishment for wrong behavior aren’t strong enough to overcome her will. Nor is letting her experience the natural consequences of her behavior... Or taking away TV, phone, computer, activities... Or making her pay a fine... Or isolating her from the rest of the family to her bedroom. Positive consequences for good behavior? Nope, that doesn’t work either. It doesn’t matter what we do. Discipline is only minimally effective with her. We work so hard and get very little result. But will I give up consistently disciplining and instructing her in the right way even though we have seen very little result over a long term? Are you kidding? NO WAY! My love for her compels me to continue. I must continue because maybe someday it will “click” for her. Or maybe not. I will take that chance because her behavior is destructive to her function and relationships with other people. I have hope for her and see what she can become, even as a young woman with an autistic spectrum disorder. I know the power of God must be at work in her as I pray for her, and I have a lot more to lose if I don’t discipline her -- even though we may never gain much from our efforts. I was recently touched as I read Amos 4. God is speaking to His people, Israel, through His prophet Amos. He says, “I gave you cleanness of teeth” (meaning famine)...”yet you have not returned to Me.” v.6 “I also withheld rain from you...yet you have not returned to Me.” v.7-8 “I blasted you with blight and mildew...yet you have not returned to Me.” v.9 “I sent among you a plague...yet you have not returned to Me.” v.10 “I overthrew some of you...yet you have not returned to Me.” v.11 After reading this, I responded, “Oh, God, You understand! And, because of my experience with my daughter, I understand and am overcome by seeing Your love through Your relentless discipline. I’m so weary. You know so often I feel like giving up and just allowing her stay as she is, but I can’t. I love her. I now understand this characteristic of Your love -- it “clicked” for me. Thank You for loving me and Your people so much to relentlessly discipline us when we need it.” Perhaps you feel the same way in your parenting. If so, remember we have a God Who understands and Who reminds us... "For [our earthly parents] disciplined us for a short time as seemed best to them, but He disciplines us for our good, so that we may share His holiness. All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness. Hebrews 12:10-11216628http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/216628-thumbnail.jpg?1007201219http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=29678http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=29678Fri, 16 Jul 2010 12:00:00 GMTA good way to remember those once a month tasks (i.e. giving the dog his heart worm medicine, adding salt to the water softener, touching up paint on a finger printed wall, etc.) is to do them on the date of your birth each month. For instance, if your birthday is January 18th, schedule these routine tasks on the 18th of every month. You can try to avoid scheduled appointments on this date and enjoy a nice day at home accomplishing these necessary tasks!A good way to remember those once a month tasks (i.e. giving the dog his heart worm medicine, adding salt to the water softener, touching up paint on a finger printed wall, etc.) is to do them on the date of your birth each month. For instance, if your birthday is January 18th, schedule these routine tasks on the 18th of every month. You can try to avoid scheduled appointments on this date and enjoy a nice day at home accomplishing these necessary tasks!29678http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/29678-thumbnail.jpg?1006300953http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=215907http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=215907Tue, 13 Jul 2010 13:00:00 GMTYou know the feeling - you're all finally loaded in the car for a trip to the pool, and you just have that sense that something's missing.<br /> <br /> You rack your brain trying to figure it out, and when nothing comes, you eventually head off to your destination, hoping for the best. It's rather unsettling, isn't it? After all, it could be a major item — like a bathing suit!  It's the nature of a mom's busy life that our minds are always on overload, but it reminded me of a similar feeling I sometimes have in my relationship with the Lord.<br /> <br /> At times I feel God's Spirit whispering to me, "Aren’t you forgetting something?"<br /> <br /> We do that, don't we? We just go from day to day, perhaps even week to week, with our focus on the all-consuming tasks of family life. Or perhaps we're thinking about an area of life that's frustrating us, or is not quite the way we want it to be. And God, in His mercy, gently reminds us to get our eyes back on Him, and on the abundant blessings He has showered on us. <br /> <br /> "What are you forgetting in all your busyness?" Or, worse yet, "What blessing are you missing in all your grumbling and complaining?" He asks.<br /> <br /> The account of Jacob's wife, Leah (Genesis 29:31-35) is an example. She never felt her husband's love— in fact, he'd chosen her sister instead. Of course, this was a hurtful situation, but Leah allowed it to blind her to the love that God continually lavished on her. Leah had one son after another while her sister Rachel struggled with infertility. Meanwhile, Rachel didn’t appreciate the devotion of her husband, because her arms ached for a baby. Both sisters missed what they had, because they were looking elsewhere to be blessed. <br /> <br /> The older I get, the more often I have the feeling that I'm forgetting something. But my prayer is that this question will prompt me to ask, “What am I missing, because I’ve allowed discontentment or ingratitude to rule in my heart?” I can only imagine how this must grieve the Lord who is constantly showering good gifts on His children. <br /> <br /> Let’s not wait as long as Leah did, who after four sons were born to her, finally saw what she’d been missing and said,<br /> <br /> <em>“This time I will praise the LORD.” -Genesis 29:35</em>You know the feeling - you're all finally loaded in the car for a trip to the pool, and you just have that sense that something's missing. You rack your brain trying to figure it out, and when nothing comes, you eventually head off to your destination, hoping for the best. It's rather unsettling, isn't it? After all, it could be a major item — like a bathing suit! It's the nature of a mom's busy life that our minds are always on overload, but it reminded me of a similar feeling I sometimes have in my relationship with the Lord. At times I feel God's Spirit whispering to me, "Aren’t you forgetting something?" We do that, don't we? We just go from day to day, perhaps even week to week, with our focus on the all-consuming tasks of family life. Or perhaps we're thinking about an area of life that's frustrating us, or is not quite the way we want it to be. And God, in His mercy, gently reminds us to get our eyes back on Him, and on the abundant blessings He has showered on us. "What are you forgetting in all your busyness?" Or, worse yet, "What blessing are you missing in all your grumbling and complaining?" He asks. The account of Jacob's wife, Leah (Genesis 29:31-35) is an example. She never felt her husband's love— in fact, he'd chosen her sister instead. Of course, this was a hurtful situation, but Leah allowed it to blind her to the love that God continually lavished on her. Leah had one son after another while her sister Rachel struggled with infertility. Meanwhile, Rachel didn’t appreciate the devotion of her husband, because her arms ached for a baby. Both sisters missed what they had, because they were looking elsewhere to be blessed. The older I get, the more often I have the feeling that I'm forgetting something. But my prayer is that this question will prompt me to ask, “What am I missing, because I’ve allowed discontentment or ingratitude to rule in my heart?” I can only imagine how this must grieve the Lord who is constantly showering good gifts on His children. Let’s not wait as long as Leah did, who after four sons were born to her, finally saw what she’d been missing and said, “This time I will praise the LORD.” -Genesis 29:35215907http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/215907-thumbnail.jpg?1007090934http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=215701http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=215701Fri, 09 Jul 2010 13:00:00 GMT <em>The following is a recent letter written to Entrusted Ministries from an EWACH Leader. It is shared with permission from the author...</em> <br /> <br /> We recently finished our second year of <em>Entrusted with a Child's Heart</em> at our church, and it was a great year. We had a newer mom to the church join the group who we were quite sure wasn't a Christian. Being a new church-goer, she was excited to be connecting with some moms in the class.  <br /> <br /> My co-leader of EWACH (an empty-nester mother), felt God's prompting and sat down with this new mom to share the Gospel with her. A few days later the mom and her 9-year-old daughter accepted the Lord at the same time. She was later baptized and finished strong in her year with EWACH. Later, she shared how this moms' group had really impacted her.<br /> <br /> It was such a blessing to me to be able to bring EWACH to all of our church's moms. The study has been amazing in my own life, and I see it impacting those around me.  I am sure you hear this all the time, but thank you for your hard work and dedication to this ministry!  It has been such a huge blessing in my life, especially since I didn't grow up in a Christian home and came to know the Lord later in life at age 24.  <br /> <br /> Having been through EWACH now 3 times (once at Elgin, and leading the study twice), I feel like Betsy is one of my personal mentors. I am truly grateful for her instruction and wisdom! Thank you!<br />The following is a recent letter written to Entrusted Ministries from an EWACH Leader. It is shared with permission from the author... We recently finished our second year of Entrusted with a Child's Heart at our church, and it was a great year. We had a newer mom to the church join the group who we were quite sure wasn't a Christian. Being a new church-goer, she was excited to be connecting with some moms in the class. My co-leader of EWACH (an empty-nester mother), felt God's prompting and sat down with this new mom to share the Gospel with her. A few days later the mom and her 9-year-old daughter accepted the Lord at the same time. She was later baptized and finished strong in her year with EWACH. Later, she shared how this moms' group had really impacted her. It was such a blessing to me to be able to bring EWACH to all of our church's moms. The study has been amazing in my own life, and I see it impacting those around me. I am sure you hear this all the time, but thank you for your hard work and dedication to this ministry! It has been such a huge blessing in my life, especially since I didn't grow up in a Christian home and came to know the Lord later in life at age 24. Having been through EWACH now 3 times (once at Elgin, and leading the study twice), I feel like Betsy is one of my personal mentors. I am truly grateful for her instruction and wisdom! Thank you!215701http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/215701-thumbnail.jpg?1007070752http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=215643http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=215643Tue, 06 Jul 2010 17:00:00 GMTMy girls love their bright pink glow-in-the -dark soccer ball.  They will frequently take it into our pantry, shut the door, turn out the light, and stare at its greenish glow.  <br /> <br /> One day the soccer ball was left in the dark pantry overnight.  The next morning, my youngest daughter called me to the pantry to once again stare at the glow.  We went in, shut the door…. but there was no glow.  The ball didn’t glow because it had been left in the dark too long.<br /> <br /> Standing in the dark pantry, God flooded my heart with this truth.  We are the same way; we stop shining when we aren't exposed to the Light.  There’s nothing about the natural me that shines.  But there’s a supernatural glow that comes from Him as I walk in Him.<br /> <br /> In order to shine His light to my family, friends, and other people I encounter throughout my day, I must walk with Him -- in His light and His truth.  I must spend regular time talking with and listening to Him so that He is reflected in me as He purifies me.<br /> <br /> <em>In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.  Matthew 5:15-16 </em><br /> <br type="_moz" />My girls love their bright pink glow-in-the -dark soccer ball. They will frequently take it into our pantry, shut the door, turn out the light, and stare at its greenish glow. One day the soccer ball was left in the dark pantry overnight. The next morning, my youngest daughter called me to the pantry to once again stare at the glow. We went in, shut the door…. but there was no glow. The ball didn’t glow because it had been left in the dark too long. Standing in the dark pantry, God flooded my heart with this truth. We are the same way; we stop shining when we aren't exposed to the Light. There’s nothing about the natural me that shines. But there’s a supernatural glow that comes from Him as I walk in Him. In order to shine His light to my family, friends, and other people I encounter throughout my day, I must walk with Him -- in His light and His truth. I must spend regular time talking with and listening to Him so that He is reflected in me as He purifies me. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven. Matthew 5:15-16215643http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/215643-thumbnail.jpg?1007060216http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=214692http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=214692Tue, 29 Jun 2010 12:00:00 GMTI have always struggled in the area of self-sufficiency. I know in my heart I need the Lord but sometimes I find that I still rely too much on myself. One day in my Bible reading, I ran across this verse in Hosea and it deeply convicted me. <br /> <br /> <em>Hosea 13:6 (NIV) says, “When I fed them, they were satisfied; when they were satisfied, they became proud; then they forgot Me.”</em><br /> <br /> How true this is! When life is good; when we are satisfied; when our bank account is healthy; when we feel like we can take care of ourselves…we can forget our deep dependence upon the Lord! <br /> <br /> As I read this verse, I was reminded of an area of struggle in my own life. I felt the Lord whisper to me, “Have you ever thanked me for this? It is the ‘thing’ I am using to keep you completely dependent upon Me.” <br /> <br /> Thank Him? Are you kidding me? I felt it was an honorable thing that I accepted this particular circumstance in my life….but thank Him for it? This was a new perspective and something I had to wrestle with for a while. It didn’t come easily, but eventually I got down on my knees and through tears of surrender, I thanked the Lord for allowing this difficulty in my life, because I know it is the thing that keeps me in a place of deep dependence on Him.<br /> <br /> I have friends who are going through some very deep waters right now. The circumstances of their lives seem overwhelming. Without the Lord, I’m certain they would despair. But I have also seen these amazing women find an intimacy with the Lord that does not come any other way. They have a depth to their relationship with Him that others only desire. They are aware of their need for the Lord each and every day simply to survive ~ so they search for Him with all their might and they find Him to be more than enough. <br /> <br /> Do you have an area of ongoing struggle in your life? A health issue? Financial stress? A difficult marriage? A prodigal child? Have you ever thanked the Lord for it? Not just accepted it…but thanked Him for how He is using it in your life to cause you to cling to Him? As you do, you will find yourself with a whole new perspective on life and you will find the Lord to be more than enough.<br /> <br />I have always struggled in the area of self-sufficiency. I know in my heart I need the Lord but sometimes I find that I still rely too much on myself. One day in my Bible reading, I ran across this verse in Hosea and it deeply convicted me. Hosea 13:6 (NIV) says, “When I fed them, they were satisfied; when they were satisfied, they became proud; then they forgot Me.” How true this is! When life is good; when we are satisfied; when our bank account is healthy; when we feel like we can take care of ourselves…we can forget our deep dependence upon the Lord! As I read this verse, I was reminded of an area of struggle in my own life. I felt the Lord whisper to me, “Have you ever thanked me for this? It is the ‘thing’ I am using to keep you completely dependent upon Me.” Thank Him? Are you kidding me? I felt it was an honorable thing that I accepted this particular circumstance in my life….but thank Him for it? This was a new perspective and something I had to wrestle with for a while. It didn’t come easily, but eventually I got down on my knees and through tears of surrender, I thanked the Lord for allowing this difficulty in my life, because I know it is the thing that keeps me in a place of deep dependence on Him. I have friends who are going through some very deep waters right now. The circumstances of their lives seem overwhelming. Without the Lord, I’m certain they would despair. But I have also seen these amazing women find an intimacy with the Lord that does not come any other way. They have a depth to their relationship with Him that others only desire. They are aware of their need for the Lord each and every day simply to survive ~ so they search for Him with all their might and they find Him to be more than enough. Do you have an area of ongoing struggle in your life? A health issue? Financial stress? A difficult marriage? A prodigal child? Have you ever thanked the Lord for it? Not just accepted it…but thanked Him for how He is using it in your life to cause you to cling to Him? As you do, you will find yourself with a whole new perspective on life and you will find the Lord to be more than enough.214692http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/214692-thumbnail.jpg?1006290739http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=80536http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=80536Fri, 25 Jun 2010 17:00:00 GMTOne of the favorite verses my husband and I claim for our children is Jeremiah 15:17 which says, "I did not sit in the circle of merrymakers nor did I exult. Because of your hand upon me, I sat alone, for you filled me with indignation." <br /> <br /> As we raise our children, we are training them to develop and live out their own convictions, even if it means having to sit alone or not be part of the "merrymaker" crowd. It even goes beyond a willingness to be alone or isolated because of your faith. It includes being indignant at sinful behavior. <br /> <br /> Seeing sin as God sees it will make your children not want to be part of it. Being home or separated out from the crowd can actually protect our kids from a lot of foolish choices. So let your kids know it's okay to be home with you on Friday night and enjoy the weekend as a family!<br />One of the favorite verses my husband and I claim for our children is Jeremiah 15:17 which says, "I did not sit in the circle of merrymakers nor did I exult. Because of your hand upon me, I sat alone, for you filled me with indignation." As we raise our children, we are training them to develop and live out their own convictions, even if it means having to sit alone or not be part of the "merrymaker" crowd. It even goes beyond a willingness to be alone or isolated because of your faith. It includes being indignant at sinful behavior. Seeing sin as God sees it will make your children not want to be part of it. Being home or separated out from the crowd can actually protect our kids from a lot of foolish choices. So let your kids know it's okay to be home with you on Friday night and enjoy the weekend as a family!80536http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/80536-thumbnail.jpg?1006250818http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=214073http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=214073Tue, 22 Jun 2010 13:00:00 GMTAs a mom, one of the most challenging things I do is find creative ways for my children to realize their capabilities. Sometimes it only takes a suggestion. Sometimes it involves creating a circumstance they just “walk into.” And then there are a few times when the only way is to just plain make them try. <br /> <br /> I am reminded of one particular time when I made my 6th grade daughter audition for a play. See, she has this gift of a beautiful voice, but she is also very shy. Somehow she needed to see what she could do.<br /> <br /> “I won’t do it and there’s NO WAY you’re going to make me, Mom. NO WAY!”  How many times I heard her say this over the course of two days! She practiced and practiced and cried several times, but I would not let her quit. Why? Why would I make her suffer and push her so hard? She clearly did not want to do this but I was making her anyway. She didn’t see the gifts that God had given her, but I did. Somehow, she needed to learn how capable she was. I decided that the best choice was to make her try and to pray for the best.<br /> <br /> So the day came for the audition. I was a wreck, even more so than my daughter.  What if I was wrong about her abilities? She got up on the stage, the music began, and there right in front of my eyes, my shy little girl transformed into Eliza Doolittle! She nailed that audition! She ran off the stage saying, “I did it Mommy, I did it! I didn’t think I could but I did, I did!” <br /> <br /> God uses this same technique with me. So many times I tell Him that I can’t possibly do something, but He makes me try anyway. I am scared and very uncomfortable, but He won’t let me quit. He reminded me of this in Psalm 66:8-12 which tells us that it is God Who not only keeps our feet from slipping, but Who also leads us into prison and lays burdens on our backs. He even at times lets "men ride over our heads" and leads us  "through fire and water...”  <br /> <br /> Why? Why does our Heavenly Father Who loves us so dearly do this to us? Why does He push us and allow us to suffer? So that He can take us to a “place of abundance” that we would never reach without being pushed.<br /> <br /> I am quite a chicken at heart, and there are gifts and abilities inside me that only God sees. He is also the only One who can show me what I am capable of with His strength. There have been some situations where God has placed me where I honestly felt I might die. I have been so overwhelmed with tasks that He has asked me to complete that I was positive I would fail. But HE gives me His strength and His wisdom and His leading so that I can accomplish things I never thought I could and certainly would never try. Then I cry to my Heavenly Father, “I did it! I did it! I didn’t think I could, but with Your help, I did!”<br />As a mom, one of the most challenging things I do is find creative ways for my children to realize their capabilities. Sometimes it only takes a suggestion. Sometimes it involves creating a circumstance they just “walk into.” And then there are a few times when the only way is to just plain make them try. I am reminded of one particular time when I made my 6th grade daughter audition for a play. See, she has this gift of a beautiful voice, but she is also very shy. Somehow she needed to see what she could do. “I won’t do it and there’s NO WAY you’re going to make me, Mom. NO WAY!” How many times I heard her say this over the course of two days! She practiced and practiced and cried several times, but I would not let her quit. Why? Why would I make her suffer and push her so hard? She clearly did not want to do this but I was making her anyway. She didn’t see the gifts that God had given her, but I did. Somehow, she needed to learn how capable she was. I decided that the best choice was to make her try and to pray for the best. So the day came for the audition. I was a wreck, even more so than my daughter. What if I was wrong about her abilities? She got up on the stage, the music began, and there right in front of my eyes, my shy little girl transformed into Eliza Doolittle! She nailed that audition! She ran off the stage saying, “I did it Mommy, I did it! I didn’t think I could but I did, I did!” God uses this same technique with me. So many times I tell Him that I can’t possibly do something, but He makes me try anyway. I am scared and very uncomfortable, but He won’t let me quit. He reminded me of this in Psalm 66:8-12 which tells us that it is God Who not only keeps our feet from slipping, but Who also leads us into prison and lays burdens on our backs. He even at times lets "men ride over our heads" and leads us "through fire and water...” Why? Why does our Heavenly Father Who loves us so dearly do this to us? Why does He push us and allow us to suffer? So that He can take us to a “place of abundance” that we would never reach without being pushed. I am quite a chicken at heart, and there are gifts and abilities inside me that only God sees. He is also the only One who can show me what I am capable of with His strength. There have been some situations where God has placed me where I honestly felt I might die. I have been so overwhelmed with tasks that He has asked me to complete that I was positive I would fail. But HE gives me His strength and His wisdom and His leading so that I can accomplish things I never thought I could and certainly would never try. Then I cry to my Heavenly Father, “I did it! I did it! I didn’t think I could, but with Your help, I did!”214073http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/214073-thumbnail.jpg?1006220801http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=213682http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=213682Fri, 18 Jun 2010 13:00:00 GMT“Mom.... I bored!…” <br /> <br /> Have you heard it yet this summer?... I have.<br /> <br /> One day while my children were happily playing, I used the time to myself to brainstorm a list of things I thought they’d enjoy doing. Later, I wrote these ideas on colorful strips of paper, folded them, and placed them in a glass jar which has become known in our family as the “Idea Jar.”<br /> <br /> There are two rules to the Idea Jar. Rule 1 -- if you complain, “I’m bored,” then Mom gets to assign you a job. But if you have searched for your own ideas first and still found the fun beginning to lag, then you can draw a card from the Idea Jar. Just remember Rule 2 -- you HAVE to do whatever your card says.<br /> <br /> Some of our cards are purely fun.<br /> 1.    Create a “car wash” for bikes.<br /> 2.    Design an obstacle course. Try using a stop watch to see who can finish in the shortest time.<br /> 3.    Use a box or jar to create a home for bugs. Now find at least 3 bugs to live in it. <br /> <br /> One color is specifically designed for rainy-day fun.<br /> 1.    Ask Mom for blue painter’s tape to make an indoor hopscotch board.<br /> 2.    Go for a swim in the bathtub. Don’t forget your goggles!<br /> 3.    Do two puzzles. Want to do more? Try creating a gallery.<br /> <br /> Some offer a twist of academics.<br /> 1.    Read for 15 minutes – try finding an interesting, new reading place.<br /> 2.    Write a story – ask Mom or Dad for an idea.<br /> 3.    Write a note or make a card. Now mail it.<br /> <br /> And others mostly benefit Mom!<br /> 1.    Get to work – ask Mom or Dad for a job.<br /> 2.    Turn up your music and clean your room.<br /> 3.    Spend 15 minutes of quiet time in your room.<br /> <br /> These ideas were designed for my children, but with a little thought, the selection could be tailored to fit the ages and interests of any child. Perhaps if you create your own jar, you’ll find like I have that once kids get started on one of the ideas, they typically go beyond the instructions to add their own creative flair. Then before they realize it, 15 minutes of fun has turned into an hour or more of play time!<br type="_moz" />“Mom.... I bored!…” Have you heard it yet this summer?... I have. One day while my children were happily playing, I used the time to myself to brainstorm a list of things I thought they’d enjoy doing. Later, I wrote these ideas on colorful strips of paper, folded them, and placed them in a glass jar which has become known in our family as the “Idea Jar.” There are two rules to the Idea Jar. Rule 1 -- if you complain, “I’m bored,” then Mom gets to assign you a job. But if you have searched for your own ideas first and still found the fun beginning to lag, then you can draw a card from the Idea Jar. Just remember Rule 2 -- you HAVE to do whatever your card says. Some of our cards are purely fun. 1. Create a “car wash” for bikes. 2. Design an obstacle course. Try using a stop watch to see who can finish in the shortest time. 3. Use a box or jar to create a home for bugs. Now find at least 3 bugs to live in it. One color is specifically designed for rainy-day fun. 1. Ask Mom for blue painter’s tape to make an indoor hopscotch board. 2. Go for a swim in the bathtub. Don’t forget your goggles! 3. Do two puzzles. Want to do more? Try creating a gallery. Some offer a twist of academics. 1. Read for 15 minutes – try finding an interesting, new reading place. 2. Write a story – ask Mom or Dad for an idea. 3. Write a note or make a card. Now mail it. And others mostly benefit Mom! 1. Get to work – ask Mom or Dad for a job. 2. Turn up your music and clean your room. 3. Spend 15 minutes of quiet time in your room. These ideas were designed for my children, but with a little thought, the selection could be tailored to fit the ages and interests of any child. Perhaps if you create your own jar, you’ll find like I have that once kids get started on one of the ideas, they typically go beyond the instructions to add their own creative flair. Then before they realize it, 15 minutes of fun has turned into an hour or more of play time!213682http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/213682-thumbnail.jpg?1006180917http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=213244http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=213244Mon, 14 Jun 2010 17:00:00 GMTOn May 14-15, 2010, Betsy was invited to speak at the first annual Women’s Retreat for Calvary English Chapel, held in Schaumburg, IL. The theme of the retreat was <em>“Everyday Counts.”</em>  <br /> <br /> Betsy shared biblical insights on subjects of tremendous importance and relevance for today’s women. In her three messages, Betsy discussed the following topics:<br /> <br /> 1.  A woman’s high calling is to live for the glory of God;<br /> 2.  She is to live with an eternal perspective, above the vanities of this world (mentioned in Ecclesiastes); and <br /> 3.  She must establish non-negotiable convictions, knowing what she reaps, she will sow.<br /> <br /> It was an honor and a privilege to share the weekend with the precious ladies of Calvary!<br /> <br /> <img alt="" src="http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Calvary%20English%20Chapel.png" /><br type="_moz" />On May 14-15, 2010, Betsy was invited to speak at the first annual Women’s Retreat for Calvary English Chapel, held in Schaumburg, IL. The theme of the retreat was “Everyday Counts.” Betsy shared biblical insights on subjects of tremendous importance and relevance for today’s women. In her three messages, Betsy discussed the following topics: 1. A woman’s high calling is to live for the glory of God; 2. She is to live with an eternal perspective, above the vanities of this world (mentioned in Ecclesiastes); and 3. She must establish non-negotiable convictions, knowing what she reaps, she will sow. It was an honor and a privilege to share the weekend with the precious ladies of Calvary!213244http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/213244-thumbnail.png?1006221017http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=28718http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=28718Fri, 11 Jun 2010 16:00:00 GMT'quip \ 'kwip \ n. 1: a witty or funny observation or response 2: something strange, droll, curious or eccentric.<br /> <br /> My 4 year-old son, Jason, announced one day at lunch that he couldn't eat his soup because I didn't give him the "Praise the Lord" crackers. After much head-scratching and further questioning, I realized he meant oyster crackers, which resemble communion crackers at our church. We now <em>always</em> serve our soup with "Praise the Lord" crackers!   -- Lisa, mother of 10'quip \ 'kwip \ n. 1: a witty or funny observation or response 2: something strange, droll, curious or eccentric. My 4 year-old son, Jason, announced one day at lunch that he couldn't eat his soup because I didn't give him the "Praise the Lord" crackers. After much head-scratching and further questioning, I realized he meant oyster crackers, which resemble communion crackers at our church. We now always serve our soup with "Praise the Lord" crackers! -- Lisa, mother of 1028718http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/28718-thumbnail.jpg?1006121201http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=212842http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=212842Wed, 09 Jun 2010 13:00:00 GMTParenting qualifies for the toughest job, the most invisible payback, and the longest commitment in my book. <br /> <br /> Finished in 18 years? Not a chance. <br /> <br /> Likelihood of your children “rising up and calling you blessed?” Rare, maybe after you die.<br /> <br /> My daughter and her family recently arrived home from a vacation.  She faced all the realities of back to school, laundry catch-up, plus the many other daily challenges they had escaped. And likely neither she or her husband will feel successful. But they are. And you, dear parent, you probably are too.  <br /> <br /> Here’s the definition of success few parents hear:  the progressive realization of a predetermined goal. <br /> <br /> Your goal is to raise children of character and faith.  Today’s observable, measurable progress: invisible, maybe really nonexistent. But you made progress.  And that, dear parent, is success.<br /> <br /> <em>Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary. Galatians 6:9</em><br /> <br /> <strong>Miriam Neff</strong> is the author of several books including<em> From One Widow to Another: Conversations on the New You. </em>She is also the founder of <a href="http://www.widowconnection.com/Widow_Connection/Widow_Connection.html">widowconnection.com</a>.<br /> <br type="_moz" />Parenting qualifies for the toughest job, the most invisible payback, and the longest commitment in my book. Finished in 18 years? Not a chance. Likelihood of your children “rising up and calling you blessed?” Rare, maybe after you die. My daughter and her family recently arrived home from a vacation. She faced all the realities of back to school, laundry catch-up, plus the many other daily challenges they had escaped. And likely neither she or her husband will feel successful. But they are. And you, dear parent, you probably are too. Here’s the definition of success few parents hear: the progressive realization of a predetermined goal. Your goal is to raise children of character and faith. Today’s observable, measurable progress: invisible, maybe really nonexistent. But you made progress. And that, dear parent, is success. Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary. Galatians 6:9 Miriam Neff is the author of several books including From One Widow to Another: Conversations on the New You. She is also the founder of widowconnection.com .212842http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/212842-thumbnail.jpg?1006081107http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=84333http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=84333Fri, 04 Jun 2010 20:00:00 GMTDo you have a traffic jam of children's artwork trying to make its way to your refrigerator? <br /> <br /> If so, try taking your children's beautiful art pieces to a printer (Office Max or Kinko's). Here you can have the art reduced down to a 4 x 6" size that you can have made into a magnet to display on the refrigerator. Even the large art pieces can be shrunk in this way. It's a great way to still be able to display your children's art and yet manage space in your home.<br /> <br /> Another idea for all of those 3 dimensional art pieces is to take a picture of your child holding their precious pieces of art. This way you can have a keepsake of all of their artwork while still maintaining storage space in your home. You and your child can pick those precious few pieces that you actually keep, and the rest can be kept as pictures in a special scrapbook for each child. <br /> <br /> Have any more ideas for displaying children's artwork? If so, please share it in the comment section below!<br /> <br /> <br />Do you have a traffic jam of children's artwork trying to make its way to your refrigerator? If so, try taking your children's beautiful art pieces to a printer (Office Max or Kinko's). Here you can have the art reduced down to a 4 x 6" size that you can have made into a magnet to display on the refrigerator. Even the large art pieces can be shrunk in this way. It's a great way to still be able to display your children's art and yet manage space in your home. Another idea for all of those 3 dimensional art pieces is to take a picture of your child holding their precious pieces of art. This way you can have a keepsake of all of their artwork while still maintaining storage space in your home. You and your child can pick those precious few pieces that you actually keep, and the rest can be kept as pictures in a special scrapbook for each child. Have any more ideas for displaying children's artwork? If so, please share it in the comment section below!84333http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/84333-thumbnail.jpg?1005010951http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=212115http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=212115Tue, 01 Jun 2010 15:00:00 GMT“What’s milk made of?”  my 5 year old daughter asked recently.<br /> <br /> “Hhmm… Well, I’m pretty sure that milk is made of… milk,” I answered.<br /> <br /> After saying that, I started thinking about how unusual it is to see single ingredient foods these days. I guess that’s why the words <em>organic, natural</em>, and <em>whole</em> are appearing more and more frequently on our produce and labels. In an attempt to be healthy, we seek to avoid processed foods, even though they are more convenient, more transportable, and have a longer shelf life.  <br /> <br /> Now don’t get me wrong, I’m no purist when it comes to eating. At least not yet. It was only recently that I learned what “trans fats” and “hydrogenated oils” are, and why I should avoid them. Truth is, I still occasionally indulge in movie theater popcorn. And let’s face it…  that “butter” is probably filled with trans and saturated fat!  <br /> <br /> But this concept fascinates me, because I realize that it parallels the frustration I feel toward processed versions of other things in life, like truth. In fact, as I searched online for a good definition of this virtue, I realized that there is “no agreed upon definition” of it. Processed truth has come to mean whatever each person believes. Talk about convenient and transportable!  <br /> <br /> But is truth really subjective? What about the truth that when I eat more calories than I burn, then over time I’ll need a larger pant size?<br /> <br /> Or the truth of gravity that pulls my body to the couch even when I try and get it up to do the 30 Day Shred?<br /> <br /> Sometimes I WISH truth, at least about food, really was subjective. If it was, then I could decide that “truth for me” is that eating fatty, processed, and hydrogenated foods is GOOD for me!  Wouldn’t that make it true?  <br /> <br /> It makes me happy.<br /> It feels good. <br /> Then it’s true.  <br /> <br /> Trust me. I wish it was true, but we all know it isn’t.<br /> <br /> Just as there are absolute truths in the biological and physical world, there are also absolute truths in the spiritual world. Jesus makes this clear when He says, “Purify them with your Truth.  Your Word is Truth.” John 17:7. <br /> <br /> In His Word we can find whole, unprocessed truth for living. What a loving and wise God to reveal these truths for us instead of leaving us to figure them out the hard way!<br /> <br /> <em>The sum of your Word is truth, and every one of your righteous rules endures forever.  Psalm 119:1</em>“What’s milk made of?” my 5 year old daughter asked recently. “Hhmm… Well, I’m pretty sure that milk is made of… milk,” I answered. After saying that, I started thinking about how unusual it is to see single ingredient foods these days. I guess that’s why the words organic, natural , and whole are appearing more and more frequently on our produce and labels. In an attempt to be healthy, we seek to avoid processed foods, even though they are more convenient, more transportable, and have a longer shelf life. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m no purist when it comes to eating. At least not yet. It was only recently that I learned what “trans fats” and “hydrogenated oils” are, and why I should avoid them. Truth is, I still occasionally indulge in movie theater popcorn. And let’s face it… that “butter” is probably filled with trans and saturated fat! But this concept fascinates me, because I realize that it parallels the frustration I feel toward processed versions of other things in life, like truth. In fact, as I searched online for a good definition of this virtue, I realized that there is “no agreed upon definition” of it. Processed truth has come to mean whatever each person believes. Talk about convenient and transportable! But is truth really subjective? What about the truth that when I eat more calories than I burn, then over time I’ll need a larger pant size? Or the truth of gravity that pulls my body to the couch even when I try and get it up to do the 30 Day Shred? Sometimes I WISH truth, at least about food, really was subjective. If it was, then I could decide that “truth for me” is that eating fatty, processed, and hydrogenated foods is GOOD for me! Wouldn’t that make it true? It makes me happy. It feels good. Then it’s true. Trust me. I wish it was true, but we all know it isn’t. Just as there are absolute truths in the biological and physical world, there are also absolute truths in the spiritual world. Jesus makes this clear when He says, “Purify them with your Truth. Your Word is Truth.” John 17:7. In His Word we can find whole, unprocessed truth for living. What a loving and wise God to reveal these truths for us instead of leaving us to figure them out the hard way! The sum of your Word is truth, and every one of your righteous rules endures forever. Psalm 119:1212115http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/212115-thumbnail.jpg?1006011135http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=84862http://www.ewach.com/Blog.aspx?site_id=10186&entry_id=84862Fri, 28 May 2010 13:00:00 GMTWhen someone is kind enough to give our children a gift or do a service for us, it is important to write a note or make a phone call to thank them. <br /> <br /> In our family, we had a rule that these gifts should not be played with until the person who gave the gift had been thanked. For us, this even included all birthday party gifts. <br /> <br /> We had a family saying: <em>“It’s not yours until you have properly thanked the person.”</em><br />When someone is kind enough to give our children a gift or do a service for us, it is important to write a note or make a phone call to thank them. In our family, we had a rule that these gifts should not be played with until the person who gave the gift had been thanked. For us, this even included all birthday party gifts. We had a family saying: “It’s not yours until you have properly thanked the person.”84862http://www.ewach.com/Content/10186/Thumbnails/84862-thumbnail.jpg?1005280916